Pre-marital counseling...
Thoughts? Know anything about it?
Ever done it?
Wish that you had?
We're thinking about it, I don't see anything wrong with it, I think wanting to get started on the right foot before marriage is a good thing non? But there's this stigma somewhat associated with couples counseling.
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We did it and a lot of it was useless but there were things about it that were useful. We lived together before we got married so I feel like we had already worked through a lot of the things they went over prior to.
ReplyDeleteWe're definitely going to do it.
ReplyDeleteI see pre-marital counselling differently to other couples counselling. It isn't like it is a regular thing, it just ensures that you have thought to talk about all the things you should talk about before you make the commitment.
For us it was amazing...you can read what I learned here: http://discoverystreet.blogspot.com/2010/02/what-i-learned-in-pre-marital.html
ReplyDeletebut these are some great books to go through regardless: http://discoverystreet.blogspot.com/2010/01/pre-marital-counseling.html
DO IT! It's the best thing Hal and I have done together and we're not even engaged ;) Sometimes, you just need a third party to hear you out. xo
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